Friday 27 September 2013

Through Gerwyn's Eyes #31 - Passing Judgments .

 
 
Through Gerwyn's Eyes #31
Passing Judgments .
 
This blog post is a reminder to everyone , including me , to STOP PASSING JUDGMENTS .

Everyone in this world WILL be hurt by words .
Be it from your parents / teachers / friends / enemies / haters / family .
If you're not tired of saying it , I'm tired of hearing it .
 
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE UGLY .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE FAT .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE SKINNY .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE ALONE .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE POOR .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE ALONE .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE UNWANTED .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE LEFT OUT .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE A LOSER .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE BORING .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE A WRECK .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE USELESS .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE HOPELESS .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE WEIRD .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE A FREAK .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE PATHETIC .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE A GEEK .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE DUMB .
STOP TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE CRAZY .

I honestly don't care whether you're rich .
I honestly don't care whether you're pretty outside .
If you don't have a kind heart , your looks mean NOTHING .

Do you know that your words are making someone hurt ?
Do you know that your words are making someone starve themselves ?
Do you know that your words are making someone feel helpless ?
Do you know that your words are making someone suicidal ?

I've been through those times .
And thankfully , I'm nowhere near any eating disorder .
People used to call me fat & ugly .
I wasn't able to take it .
I made myself starve .
I made myself thinner .
I wasn't happy , not being able to eat the food I needed .
I told myself " PEOPLE DON'T LIKE YOU . "

Rumours about my boyfriend & I started .
They made me feel like cutting .
They were mean .
I didn't understand what I did wrong .
I didn't know what I had to do to make people stop .

My brain said " Let go of your life , you'll be happier when you're gone . "
" Let them bear the guilt of pushing you too far . "

I knew I couldn't give in .
I tried to suicide .
But I thought about my boyfriend .
I thought about my family .
I thought about my life .

I will never be able to know what life would be like if I had anorexia or bulimia .
But , I know what life is like with IBS .
I know what life is like with Bipolar Disorder .
I know what life is like with blood deficiency .

Life is not easy .
And it doesn't help if you choose to keep hurting people with your words .
Many girls are starving themselves & dieting .
Many teens are cutting themselves .
Many people are drowning in cigarettes & drugs .

Please , take it that I'm begging you .
Stop this .
Stop judging people before you judge yourself .

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